A Relationship

relationship we have with others is a projection of the relationship we have with ourselves. Relationship of external and internal relationships is a same item with different names.
He further added that all relationships that we have only existed in the imagination, minds and our heads. O how true this is.
According to him, because these two things, external and internal are equal, then like any form, type, and quality we expect from our relationship with others that's all we have with ourselves.
Consequently, if we want to improve the quality of our relationship with someone, then we need to do is do the same thing ourselves.
We want more loved girlfriend, then more to care for ourselves.
We hate a nosy co-workers and sirikan, then maybe we need to stop nosy and envious with ourselves.
We sebel same versatile expert who always appeared on TV and was looking for attention, then perhaps we also want to appear on TV and so-called experts?

Our relationship with others is a projection of our relationship with ourselves, and all that exists only in our heads.
Even for a relationship which we confirm (I love you, you're like me ga?) Also we have no objective standard to assess the relationship, thus we have a relationship which is the relationship that we envision.
I could even claim that 90% of the entire relationship in this world only in the natural world of mind and never proven in the real world.
That's why there is an unrequited love, and there are shamans who act.
And because it's just in your head, relationship could be present at once and snap with whomever and whatever we want.
You can have a relationship with the office boy in your office (do you think he's good, according to him you return to buy cheap rice packets requested aja Rp 2000)
You can have a relationship with the SPG HP nawarin latest in the mall (do you think he likes you, he says you rupiah running).
You can have a relationship with your boss (you think he is fragrant, dashing and handsome, according to him you like his son)
And you also have a relationship with my father and nyokap you, with your brothers and sisters, with your child, with your friends.
Millions relationship was born, appeared, dead and gone in a day.
Ga only with a real person in your life, we also have relationships with many other parties.
With a soap star who appeared on the show gossip (definitely a good person), with radio announcer you hear his voice (surely one section), with a model that appeared in the magazine (yes mulu why he smiles at me, his eyes duh), with a celebrity blog you read his blog (nice and considerate person definitely not cocky, hotshot after all smart, hihihihi)
Every relationship is personal and we believe goes both ways, because it is in every relationship we believe that those who we imagine has a relationship also with us.
Well, maybe not now because we have never met, but later if together we believe that the relationship will it be as we think.
This is why the junior high and high school there used to be my friends that I'm desperately in love with a girl, without feeling the need to notify the person feels the same.
Know aja ga, ga say never but yet because of the large feelings towards the girl he thought it should be a revered him can feel his feelings, and they felt like they were in a relationship.

Relationship in the head alone is also the case with many other things.
With the white, cats who seemed to understand our feelings.
With guitars that accompany a true friend so quiet at night minggi (hihi let rhyming).
With a loyal male escort motor mounts anywhere.
With books, computers, with a blog (!), With the house, with the city.
Each of us feels to have two-way relationship with them all and believe they were with us, but how can if they feel it not?

And the biggest and most grand of course our relationship with The Above Sana (YDS).
We feel guilty when breaking His commandments. Sure when we walk in His paths. Confidence in his guidance.
We ask, beg, cry and mengampun him.
With each of our search, we build a relationship with Him.
Although the relationship did not exist in Indonesian counterpart.